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The last one!

My Dearest reader!!  Thank you so much for taking out time  from your life to read my blogs! I am overwhelmed by the response I have got from all of you! You changed the way I used to think about my writing and you motivated me to write more and more! I am delighted to end the year with calmness and acceptance. Cheers to all of you who were around me in some or another way. I promise you to bring great blogs ahead in the coming year. Dear reader! Every new year is hope for us for a new beginning and fresh start. And I want to say You matter! Your existence is needed to make this world a better place. We as humans have learned one thing hard way in the past year that life is unpredictable. We have feared for our lives and that’s something common between billions of us. It kept us strangely connected. Isn’t that something? In the coming year, give yourself a new chance to be a better person because we don’t know what destiny has in the book for us. Let’s live life like we never did befor

The sweet abyss

I believe complications are something that only we as humans create. Things are either black or white - not all the time, but most of the time. We, humans, have the capacity to bring things to the Grey zone. Sometimes, it makes me wonder if we have made this Grey zone for our comfort or to escape reality! Is it really difficult to choose between black and white? What exactly is a 'Complicated Relationship'? I think the truth is we want the best of both worlds and we don't want to lose either black or white. It's always not easy to take a call. Sometimes, it's not about not having the courage to lose someone but it's about a hope that isn't ready to die inside. It is a state of confusion between 'To wait' or 'To move on'. And sometimes it’s only about the memories which we are holding us and not letting go. It takes courage to set yourself free from memories. It is difficult to start walking away from something that you love. The first step

A Myth that needs to be addressed

Krishna once told Arjun, “Revenge does not come easy, it comes with consequences.” Bhagavat Gita holds multiple teachings like this. Generally, we are suggested to avoid bad people and that Karma or God will make these Evil minded people pay. To be honest with you, sometimes I hate this theory. Don't you think sometimes you should such people a taste of their own medicine and enjoy watching them burn? The quote is, ‘Revenge is a dish best served cold”. I say serve it chilled!! Why Not?? Yes, it is completely fine to become badass to get back and slap that taste out of their mouth. And NO! Revenge does not make you a bad person; it does not morally degrade you (Only when it's not often)!! Moreover, it is fine not to wait too long for karma to take the course. It is totally normal to retaliate rather than pick up your broken pieces. I don’t know why, but being good is overrated, which is followed blindly because many of us do not have courage and cannot voice up for something tha

You may kiss the frogs

It is the last day of 2019; I am sitting in my room and sipping Kashmiri kahwa in the afternoon of windy winters. Oh! It feels so good and cosy in my warm winter blanket that it is almost impossible for one to get out of. The sun is shining bright, it is a pleasant day. I love winters for so many reasons, that the list can practically go on. As a kid, I always used to love summers, due to vacations and no studies. It was adulthood that made me realize that winter is the real hero. Winter reminds me of amazing things like; good food, hot chocolate, layers of clothes with the best trends, knee-length boots, pretty caps, less sweat during workouts and of course lastly, Having someone!! It is so crazy that it almost feels like a curse to be single during this season. This brings me to my favourite topic of all the time; Dating !! We are always asked to stay careful while giving our hearts, just so; it doesn’t break! But let’s say it, what is good without bad? And that's why we fall int

Thoughts that stayed with me

This one is going to be a bit different. Over time, I penned down some things and felt like sharing them this time. So here goes nothing!