"One day, you will realize you lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." That's exactly what I felt at the end of 2021 when one of my friends failed to understand that I really needed her. We outgrow people-school friends, college friends, previous company friends, previous-neighbour friends and many more. You might still have their contact details, but the chemistry isn't the way it used to be. Conversations, mindsets, thought processes, personal and professional growths evolve and sometimes you can't catch up even if you desire to do so. Eventually, the essence of friendship fades away, if swift actions aren't taken; leaving behind a courtesy relationship that you cannot deny or avoid. On another note, I've lost a couple of friends over what they'd consider trivial matters but I deem as basic. Last I checked, friends are a part of personal life. So when one of my friends said, "I didn't want to get into your personal spa
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