The Queen of Random Things

  Girlfriends are tricky!  Yes, Boys! I agree with you. Being a girl I second the statement: Girls are complicated. I mean there is just too much drama and unnecessary baggage for no good apparent reasons.  I am all about GIRL POWER & YOU GO, GIRL! But man oh man the things you need to do to maintain a girl are sometimes overwhelming. Why can't girls be understanding and smooth sometimes, isn't it? Over a decade, I have come across several females and the process of knowing them has been wonderful, but the process of maintaining them is dreadful. The constant pressure of being in touch, making them feel that they are wanted and needed around is just too much at times. I am still not used to these things, but thank god for maturity and mature age that gave a lot of them a sense that you don't need a constant reminder of "You are important!". I guess I have had more drama with my friends who are girls than with boys! That's the reason I have more boyfriends

I have learned that people misunderstand love with a lot many things and they don’t realize it for the longest time, sometimes they never realize it. Love doesn’t happen often, there is only one person who can teach you, love, without explaining it in words. And the strangest thing is you will enact those lessons without even noticing for a long time.  I have seen people falling in love with someone who accepts them for who they are, for someone who make them feel better about themselves, for someone who has a lot to offer.  Love is a tricky concept to understand and yes you really cannot describe it in words. But love means constancy, it might change over time with affection. However, the desire to see them well never dies.   I have witnessed several couples loving each other but not being in love with each other. It’s not the spark that dies between them but what remains is the feeling of belongingness.  I have seen people misunderstand being in love with good sex and affection. Now,