A conundrum called Love

I have learned that people misunderstand love with a lot many things and they don’t realize it for the longest time, sometimes they never realize it.

Love doesn’t happen often, there is only one person who can teach you, love, without explaining it in words. And the strangest thing is you will enact those lessons without even noticing for a long time. 

I have seen people falling in love with someone who accepts them for who they are, for someone who make them feel better about themselves, for someone who has a lot to offer. 

Love is a tricky concept to understand and yes you really cannot describe it in words. But love means constancy, it might change over time with affection. However, the desire to see them well never dies.  

I have witnessed several couples loving each other but not being in love with each other. It’s not the spark that dies between them but what remains is the feeling of belongingness. 

I have seen people misunderstand being in love with good sex and affection. Now, that's your hormones playing tricks on you, be careful I would rather say!

I have heard people saying they don’t feel attracted to their loved ones. I guess what they don’t realize is loving their partners isn’t a conscious decision anymore, it’s a natural process. 

I have seen people moving on while being married but still stuck to the same person. I wonder if they understand every passing moment they move on, something dies either inside them or in the relationship. 

People don’t look for a relationship anymore, they look for someone who loves them and make them feel wanted. That’s how low love has been downgraded these days. 

People casually talk about sex like it’s not a big deal, and justifies their infidelity with the term ‘The need of the body’. What they don’t understand is sex is no longer an act or a mechanism when it’s between two souls who connect with each other spiritually, emotionally, physically, and mentally. 

Loyalty these days is replaced with ‘not getting it at home’, ‘it’s just sex’, ‘it’s just one night’, ‘I want it more’. Well, in that case, why do we look for a girlfriend and boyfriend experience? Or why aren’t we ready to sleep with a sex worker? If it's just a one-time thing and etc.

Being in a relationship is scary these days because people leave as soon as things get rocky. Plus, most of us are aware that there are more fish in the pond. 

“There will always be someone who will be more good-looking, more intelligent, and more appealing”, she said and asked, “What makes you be with me and not move to the next one”. He said, “You are my home and home doesn’t have to be beautiful, charming, attractive all the time. It has to be true, soulful, and comforting in its rawest form.” And added, “To me, you are that one person I can be the ugliest and still know that I will be loved and accepted for my positives as well as flaws. I will be celebrated and valued for who I am. Isn’t that how love works?!”. 

I have loved once and I have never loved again. I don’t know if I will ever love again because it is said, “You can love twice only if you are too lucky.” Love always remains pure, exclusive, and rare! If love happens again and again then it’s just the desire to feel wanted. 

With that short write-up, let me end today’s blog on a lovely note. I tried my best to gather words about love and express it in my best effort. Don't jinx good times with love just because the world has degraded the meaning of Love. Keep it real, honest, and extraordinary. 

With Lots of gracious Love,

The Queen of Random Things

XOXO