The sweet abyss

I believe complications are something that only we as humans create. Things are either black or white - not all the time, but most of the time. We, humans, have the capacity to bring things to the Grey zone. Sometimes, it makes me wonder if we have made this Grey zone for our comfort or to escape reality! Is it really difficult to choose between black and white? What exactly is a 'Complicated Relationship'? I think the truth is we want the best of both worlds and we don't want to lose either black or white. It's always not easy to take a call.

Sometimes, it's not about not having the courage to lose someone but it's about a hope that isn't ready to die inside. It is a state of confusion between 'To wait' or 'To move on'. And sometimes it’s only about the memories which we are holding us and not letting go.

It takes courage to set yourself free from memories. It is difficult to start walking away from something that you love. The first step always asks for the most effort and I say we must!! Because maybe those memories are too beautiful and too hard to let go of.

Maybe it is too painful to start living alone without that person. It’s a lot harder to kill that hope inside us. But you can never think of a better future if you keep holding your past. Things only become complicated when we make them. Maybe we need to accept the Blacks that are rejections. Maybe we need to make a tough call that is not in our favour.

Life did not come with a clause to always be smooth. But you always have to give life a chance in tough situations because it’s always bitter medicine that helps us to get rid of fever. Situations won’t be favourable all the time but it surely will lead us to a better path, which will be worth it!! In a bad situation, someone with the vision can win the race of life and that’s not going to be a cakewalk, for sure!

Don’t let your emotions control you, but take control of your emotions. Do what is right for you!! No matter how difficult the start is, it’s going to be easy once you make a move towards betterment. So I say, accept the bitter truth, tackle defeats, let go of that person, take on troublesome calls, handle your emotions and move forward in life. Nothing’s going to be easy but it’s not impossible, It’s only a state of mind.