Daring to Be Me: A Yearly Chronicle of Fun and Freedom
Last year, I did something new every month, which was a hoot and a half. I also penned down one line every day and shared bits and pieces of it with you guys a couple of weeks ago (Here). I get bored with things easily, and I mean non-living things - not humans. Hence, every year since 2020 I come up with some neat ideas that keep me going, and makes looking back at the year more interesting. It's not a challenge per se. The idea is to enjoy the process and forget about it until the year-end.
The Upside Down Year: 2021 allowed me to get out of my shell, and live a little. The work-from-home setting allowed me to enjoy every bit of travel, friendship, and romance. In true essence, I started falling in love with myself from this year. It wasn't because of the way I looked or dressed up, but because of the way I conducted myself and the way I had grown up. It allowed me to get closer to myself.
The Bitch Year: 2022 was one mad year for me. I was in my hos zone and I decided to do everything that I wanted to do, but I boxed it up and didn't do it because it was termed wrong according to societal pressure. Oh, did I have fun? That's the most fun I have ever been. I miss that version of myself because she was fun, crazy, full of life, and impulsive. Looking back on those memories is painfully pleasurable because I know I will never be the same again.
The Detox Year/The every day Selfie Year: 2023 was empowering because it made me cut off and distant from all the toxic people who didn't help me grow in any way. Gosh! It wasn't easy. Turns out, लोग प्यार में धोखा खाते हैं, मैंने दोस्ती में खाया है. The everyday selfie helped me see my transition, which was something. It was a tough year, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
For a change, this year I have decided to do nothing (Yet) - apart from reading 14 books. I think I am going to take it easy and let faith take its course. Let's see what 2025 has to offer me. The vibe of the year is positive.
I will say, COVID pushed me to do things I never expected to do, and it has got me where I am today. I am a little nervous about this year because I am getting close to my mid-30s in less than a month, and I still don't act or look my age. As scary as it feels I have to go through with it, there is no other option!
Let me soak in the beautiful memories of the past and catch up with the pace of life. I hope this year helps you grow, and become wise yet keeps you grounded. Until next time, make every moment count and cherish it.
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