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God, Grant Me The Serenity To Accept The Things I Cannot Change, Courage To Change The Things I Can & Wisdom To Know The Difference 

 As I was saying this out loud, I realized that this simple but powerful prayer could change my life if only I could comprehend it thoroughly. Benedict Cumberbatch mentioned this prayer in one of his speeches, which hit me hard. Isn't it amazing how the simplest words produce deep meaning and leaves a lasting impact on us? I was in a loophole when I came across this Instagram Reel aimlessly. This prayer was an answer to my question that I did know I had. These lines sum up the recipe of life without elaborating it much. Sometimes it takes a long time to understand something trivial because we don't pay attention to them. 

I was having a bad day and was in an urge to cry when these words made me think twice about the thing I was sad about. I know there are days we question our existence and ask if we are worthy of the life we have. Even the wealthiest people aren't the happiest people. God doesn't give everyone everything. That is if you believe in god or superior power. Being on the right track is difficult. And has it ever occurred to you, my dear readers, that things don't make sense to us at that moment? They make sense to us later once it's all resolved because we were overwhelmed with our feelings then.

We all have bad days, and sometimes, we shut ourselves down. Sometimes it impacts our routine, work, dear ones, health, etc. I wonder why we forget that the sun doesn't forget to rise on any day, and even on bad days, there are people to love us. Routine is vital when there is a situation you can't handle. Sure, the routine won't solve the issue, but it will keep you engaged and give you time to handle yourself. Sometimes not looking for answers is the key to finding the answer. We try too hard to fit in, to move ahead, to adjust, to maintain in a world that's man-made or artificial.   

I don't know who needs this, but I will say it anyway. Be easy on yourself. Give yourself endless chances, which you give others. This too shall pass, and you aren't alone in anything. Yes, there are others. The people who love you for who you are will never leave you. If someone wants to stay in your life, they will do any goddam thing to make sure it happens. Love yourself when you least deserve it because that's when you really need it!  

Watching this Reel on repeat made me realize something my father told me years ago. He said, "Sweetheart, when the situation isn't changing then god wants you to change or it is time for you to change. (for those who are atheists)" We learn some lessons the hard way, isn't it? 

This is the first time I have had no agenda while writing this blog, and for the first time in a year, I have written the title after writing the blog. 

On that note, on a cold and breezy afternoon of winter, I wish you a happy weekend. Don't forget: You Are Amazing Just The Way You Are, my dear reader. 

With Lots of love & courage 

The Queen of Random things

xoxo