The Charm of a Relationship with an Expiry Date ❤️

A recent conversational encounter with someone motivated me to reflect deeply on a particular relationship aspect. Now I am a deep person. There are many layers to my personality, mindset, and thought process. Nothing with me is uncomplicated and simple. I have a different way of looking at things, and that's my Life's beauty. So when I was questioned about how I could deal with temporary relationships in my life, I had to address it. Because I just didn't want to lose an opportunity to share something so beautiful that I learned a few years ago, which I still cherish and put to good use. 

It takes a lot of courage and positivity to be in a short-lived relationship.

The beauty of relationships with an expiry date is so exotic that not everyone can hold it. These relationships add value to our Life the way no other relationship does! If you think carefully, your Life is most affected by the relationships you thought mattered the least to you. They were intangible and mesmerizing in their way that you wouldn't like to have it any other way.

These short-term relationships might not make sense to others, but it's okay as they aren't part of it. 

A short-term relationship can still hold strong meaning in your life and change you as a person, trust me, you will be pleasantly surprised to experience that. There is just so much to learn together and from each other in a brief time. This realization adds thrill to even the smallest act you accomplish with or for the person. The acknowledgment of the death of the connection makes it more lively and exciting. We tend to live every moment to the fullest with the person like there is no tomorrow. Sometimes we aren't aware of the deadline, and that mere fact encourages us to give our best shot. There is a strange kind of satisfaction in unknown territories with no details, taglines, and information. Thus, the given time with the person becomes pure gold. 

You do not need to explain your relationship to the world as far as it makes sense to the two of you. 

I always treat temporary relationships with extra love and care because why wouldn't you like to make most of that accidental bond that leaves you with a smile. You might not be in touch with the person; you might keep the number but never collect the courage to call; you might never meet or see them again. But just like life, everything doesn't have to come with terms and conditions. It can be a couple of minutes, a few hours, a few days, a few weeks, or a few months. If someone adds value to your time, you mustn't miss on that person no matter what! Plus, don't just limit such encounters with romantic interests. 

A friend of mine profoundly shared details of his textual relationship during a drive. He told me how happy and significant that attachment is to him, but he doesn't talk about it as the world will not understand that equation. They have never met, and they never will, but that doesn't change the way feel about each other. They still share mutual respect and affection. 

The art of letting go needs practice and patience. The art of letting go surely isn't easy. But for better or worse, the butterfly has to fly away and explore the world of possibilities. I believe, "कुछ चीज़ें, कहानियाँ और क़िस्से अनकहें और अधूरे ही अच्छे लगते हैं॥" These relationships might not stay for too long, but there is a lot to learn. The purpose of this relationship is to know a person and explore deeper into yourself. Either you can be yourself and explore the possibilities, or you can limit yourself to a shell and keep it as a passing affair (Which is the stupidest thing to do!) The process of exploration can hit us differently that rejuvenate our souls. Do not, and I say it again, DO NOT lose on a person who brings meaning to your existence, even if it's for a minute. Like SRK once said, "उस हाथ को तुम थाम लो, वो मेहरबान कल हो ना हो"

  

Sometimes you don't have to burden yourself with an overwhelming feeling for someone. Acceptance and celebration is the key to deal with such complex things. 

In the journey of Life, you will come across people who will teach you how to Live every day rather than just passing those days. They will take you out of your comfort zone, teach you a thing or two, and make you do things you never thought you would do. It is intimidating to tap into the feelings for the person because it is scary as hell to realize how essential someone can be in a short span of time (With the add-on reality check that the person will leave). But that's the most wonderous feeling out of all. Please don't say no because such relationships have the power to bring you closer to yourself and create a better version of you every passing moment. You don't know which stones will be turned to make you realize how blessed you are! 

Don't hesitate & let it come closer for its worth! 

Cheers to the number of people I met in Mumbai, the girl I partied with, the romantic interest who takes me out of my comfort zone, the dog who made me smile on the mountain when I was low, the mute man who always makes me smile without knowing my name, the uncle who graciously greets me in the morning on my way to yoga class, the grandma who always offers help in buying vegetables. I don't know how to express my gratitude, but this is my way of showing that you are regarded as highly as you deserve. And even though you won't stay forever and it is momentarily, You will be cherished! 

Love them, enjoy them, treat them right, and bid them goodbye with a smile on your face and tears in your eyes. Set them free from your Life, not memories. 

With that note, the Queen of Random Things tells you adios, my dear reader. I have a lovely and, hopefully, frisky romantic weekend ahead. Until next time give a little thought to this concept and keep smiling no matter what! 

XOXO